OK, back again. still married. harder to explain than i have room for here. if you are looking for discreet, then i am it. I am very open to exploration. You can be 18-50...any socializing is good..lol. I am not huge,(not small, around 8) but can use it..I am also interested in just having someone to talk to..no strings. not much I have not done, and very little could shock me, if you are looking for something discreet, or maybe just a chat buddy..maybe I'm it. I enjoy "control" games and definitely like "light" bondage and S&M. I also can go the direction of Being completely in control..(to the extreme if you like) or totally romantic and slow. I prefer amutual threesome situation (with couples), or he if wants to watch or join. Very open to singles as well, just remember I AM NOT single and my activities are not known. I live in Bangor, Maine and am full time in college, so available all day long :) gimme a shout even just to chat!

My Ideal Person what i am looking for is kind of listed in my intro, i am open to almost anything. I don't judge a woman by size or desires..We all have wants that we cant voice, some mainstream, some not, (wont say I am not into a submissive or younger woman or older women, lol). you cannot shock me with requests, i probably have been there! try me! send me a note. PS..I perform a lot younger than my listed age

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
i like to be in control. I like spanking a woman and have had
a few that wanted me to choke them out as they came...scary,
but erotic. I like a woman (but not exclusively) who enjoys
being tied and used as I want at the time. I fully believe
in safe words and NEVER even try something the lady has not
hinted towards. In the end it is about pleasing her...I
am a guy..making us cum is easy....I get off by being sure
my partner enjoys.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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