Please read the profile and if we have common interest then send me a msg, if not, I'd prefer you didn't waste your time. I know exactly what I'm looking for and won't settle for anything less. A good woman inspires a man, a brilliant woman interests him, a beautiful woman fascinates him, and a sympathetic woman understands him. I try to be all of those, not to mention exciting and fun. I'm slightly gothic, into steampunk, bit of a closet geek, and a cougar. Don't get it twisted I'm not a MILF, not into casual sex, so there's no "hook up" or "hit it" kind of thing going on here. You'll have to prove you're worth my time, and there has to be chemistry...a spark, or I won't even consider meeting you. I'm the complete package and can afford to be picky. I know what I'm looking for and won't settle for less. Now that's not to say, that we couldn't become friends, I'm very friendly and always open to that, but I want to be honest about what I'm about. I don't want to mislead anyone. I date young men 29-41, that share the same interest that I do. The most important being underground music and art. I'm into electronic music, break dancing, raves, music festivals, burning man, steampunk, ghost hunting, and most of all I'm looking for that chemistry. I have a great sense of humor, love to do silly stuff, make people laugh, and try to surround myself with positive people. I do like to live life with intensity, on the edge, and would like to find someone that can spark inspiration, keep up with me, make me laugh, make me think, and sometimes be the voice of rea that says, bitch you're crazy! I promise it's never boring, but you have to bring your A game, I do love the shy boys but they rarely make the cut. I'm very dominate and need someone as dominate...maybe just a bit more, I bow to no one so if you're overly dominate that won't work either. I'm looking for my equal, so that we can teach each other things, bring out the best in one another, and live on the edge, saving one another from intense disaster.

My Ideal Person All I'm really wanting is a positive person who can appreciate me and become my best friend. Looking for someone who doesn't have a problem communicating. Doesn't have to be a genius, but intelligence is a big plus. He's got to have a great sense of humor. I'm forever doing or saying something silly to make you laugh. My idea of a great night would be playing hide and seek in the park at midnight with night vision goggles, walking through the cemetery while telling spooky stories, or go to the First friday artwalk. None of which cost anything, I'm more impressed by creativity and having fun than I am money, cars, or clothes. Don't get me wrong, I think a man dressed up in a nice suit is very sexy!
As far as the Dominatrix side goes, that's a totally separate subject. If you are a submissive male looking for that type of thing you need to msg me and title it hello Mistress so that I know what it is, otherwise it will be overlooked.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
dillinja, nero, breakage, seba, hex'd, twisted individual

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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