I enjoy poker, anything outdoors, partying, karaoke, cooking, BBQ'ing, bonfires, and sex. I live in the country and love it. However I grew up in the city and 'clean up very well'. lol You will find me hunting, fishing, ice fishing, hiking, camping, canoeing, snowmobiling, biking, cutting wood, working in the garden or yard. I fix whatever I can before I replace it....whether a what-cha-magoo or house or vehicle. I believe in homesteading and survivalism. It is not because I think there will be some large zombie invasion or anything. It is because I believe if you are not self-sufficient and can take care of yourself, how can you take care of anyone else. I have been a swinger for 8 yrs and been to hotel takeovers, house parties, and spur of moment "what do you think about" happenings. Most of my swinging experience has been in a relationship so I understand how inundated all the women on here will be with emails from men wanting you too poop in a cup or some other gross thing. I don't have many rules. As I have experienced, it is much more fun that way. Live in the moment. I also go into every situation with no expectations. If we go out for drinks or take a snowmobile to the furthest out-of-the way and most beautiful place, and nothing happens. I am good with that. Because in the end, we still experienced it together and became friends. Or maybe we didn't and decided to go our separate ways. That is life. Life is much easier and extremely more enjoyable without expectations. This site's primary focus is sex. However, the lifestyle is about friends and sex. Let's keep it that way. Although I do and have enjoyed (and will never turn it down lol) 'hit it & quit it" type scenarios, I know sex gets better and better the more you know someone. I am honest to a fault. If I am not interested, I will tell you....as nicely as I can. I reply to all inquiries....even if to say "no, thank you". I hope to receive the same in return. I am respectful, courteous, and a gentleman...because that is how my mother and grandmother raised me. I am always the nice guy...to a fault sometimes. I am drug and disease free. I have never had a STD. I also have never tried any drugs. Although, I have always wanted to try weed and have considered moving to Colorado now that their laws have changed. LMAO Updated 1/9/.........the above will not be changed. I am Irish, German, a Scorpio, and an Ox. GOOD LUCK!!! lol

My Ideal Person I am looking for fun-loving, open-minded, easy going people who want to enjoy all life has to offer....including some of my best parts.

When I was 20, a breeze would turn me to marble and I could do whatever I wanted with it. However, my tastes have refined so-to-speak and I am physically not interested in large women. Most BBW are not large women...as most women always judge themselves to harshly...even calling themselves a BBW because they are 30 pounds more than they think they should be. Large is morbidly obese. I may think you are pretty or have a beautiful smile, but other parts of me say 'no'.

I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP BEYOND FRIENDSHIP. If and when it changes (couple years from now probably), I will update my profile. We may become the best of friends, good friends, or occasional friends.

Please be real, honest, open, light-hearted, and fun-loving.

Updated 1/9/14

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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