Hello I'm a guy with a great sense of fun and adventure both in and out of the bedroom. Recently, my job shifted to something that wasn't all-encompassing so now I have a bit of time on my hands and have begun enjoying what it's like to not be a worker bee. (I still work, I just don't live at work anymore). Because of this, I'd like to see if I could find people out there who enjoy playing hard like I do...in all the fun ways. My ideal per is someone who is secure,stable and looking for a someone to add to her already terrific life. I would love to be the third in your relationship or your partner when you want to go out and get into fun trouble. You could be a single woman looking for something more then a one night stand or a part of a happy-go-lucky couple looking to add a regular third per to your sex life. I am comfortable in either situation and am always looking for a new adventure. I am 6' about 185 and swim 3 or 4 times a week to stay in shape as much as the sun will allow. I do have photos available and would be happy to share them with you via email or here if you are interested. I'm not a huge fan of bars and that sort of thing, but I have been to my share of play parties. I mostly go for the atmosphere, because I like being around people open with their sexuality in an environment where they can be who they are in the moment. If you like what you read so far, drop me a note and we can go from there. I can play fast, or slow at whatever speed you and yours feel comfortable with.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is someone who is secure,stable and looking for a someone to add to her already terrific life. I would love to be the third in your relationship or your partner when you want to go out and get into fun trouble. You could be a single woman looking for something more then a one night stand or a part of a happy-go-lucky couple looking to add a regular third person to your sex life. I am comfortable in either situation and am always looking for a new adventure.

I am 6' about 185 and swim 3 or 4 times a week to stay in shape as much as the sun will allow. I do have photos available and would be happy to share them with you via email or here if you are interested.

I'm not a huge fan of bars and that sort of thing, but I have been to my share of play parties. I mostly go for the atmosphere, because I like being around people open with their sexuality in an environment where they can be who they are in the moment.

If you like what you read so far, drop me a note and we can go from there. I can play fast, or slow at whatever speed you and yours feel comfortable with.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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