One of the most common rea most relationships (vanilla and BDSM) fail is a lack of honesty. Can you be honest with me? Can you open your soul to me? Will you allow me to see who you really are? Will you trust me not to hurt you or treat you like a doormat? To respect your boundaries even though you are my submissive? If you can't be completely open and honest about your fetishes, kinks or how you identify, stop reading and move to the next Dom who's claiming their experience. (I'll wait) Good, you're still here. Now, my first question to you is going to be, what is your definition of a submissive? And, could you be totally submissive? (Ok, that's two questions, you got me. But I'm a Dom, so I'm never wrong (true or false)? I totally understand my responsibilities and role as a Dom. I've never taken my responsibilities lightly. I understand by me taking on your burden, this will free you up to enjoy life.You could literally shut down your brain and not have to think, just submit to me. I will allow you to do the rest. As you can see, I've made this profile about you (the sub) because I want you to freely submit to me. I understand a lot of women have had bad experience with the wrong per. (I'm not him, I will leave my past behind with that per, you should do the same) I'm a 47 yrs straight black man (that's right, sorry) but I am who I am, can't change that now. I'm a Dom, a good father and a good man. I'm single and unattached at the moment. I'm only looking for one sub to have a full 24/7 D /s relationship. If you're not serious, please do not contact me. And I'm not looking for a " vanilla relationship" either. I'm willing to consider a woman with no experience with this lifestyle. And let me add this one final tidbit... it's not all about sex... it's about honesty, trust and respect. Can I be honest with you, could you trust me? And could we respect each another? I hope to find out... O1/ 2017 Update note: I'm looking for a rope bunny for some bondage fun. I'm also a photographer...

My Ideal Person If you consider or identify as a submissive who has found herself compelled and curious based on my writings, consider whether you fit the following basic criteria. If so, considering introducing yourself to me.

To be eligible for consideration a submissive should be single and unattached. Between 35 - 50 years old Then ask yourself, can I be comfortable with (you) having final say and authority in all of our decisions? Can I be settled and focused on the idea of a D / s relationship first… then marriage if it comes to that? Can I be comfortable with the idea of being 100% subordinate to (you) in our D/s relationship? And to be acceptance of the fact that I will be 100% in control of our erotic sex life... (sounds like a lot huh) ... but it's worth it!

A relationship can not be built overnight. Reaching out and introducing yourself to me, it's simply the first step. Talk to me, get to know me... I'm here to please you!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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