I'm here on AFF because, after getting divorced 10+ years ago, I tried the "regular" dating sites and wasn't happy with the women I was meeting. I met some wonderful ladies, who I got along with great and had a lot of fun "socially", but when the relationship got intimate we just didn't click. I am amazed at how many middle-age women have given up on sex! I don't consider myself kinky, but when I hear comments like "I think oral sex is dirty" or "I just don't have the desire for sex anymore", I don't see much of a future in a relationship! So I figured I'd try AFF and turn the equation around, finding someone with a sexual compatibility first, then see if we click perally and socially as well. I'm looking for a lady with an "average to high" sex drive, and who loves being please orally (among other desires). Is that too much to ask? Hopefully at AFF I'll find her. So here's a bit about me... I'm a masculine, easy-going, 52 year old university professor, very friendly, clean and discreet. I work hard, but also enjoy playing and relaxing. All sorts of hobbies, and always have a few "home improvement" projects going on at any given time. I've got a full head of brown hair (with salt and pepper creeping in), blue eyes, deep voice, and am considered handsome (so I'm told... but "to each their own"... I'm happy to send a photo and let you decide). I love music (die hard rock fan, but enjoy quite a range), stand-up comedy, good food (going out or cooking in), relaxed drives up the coast or frantic jaunts to Vegas... but also really miss just relaxing and chatting, laughing, touching, teasing, and I love to kiss. Maybe I didn't get enough "nipple" as an infant, because I'm VERY orally inclined, and love to please my lady orally. That's not the only thing I like sexually... I love all sorts of foreplay, and I'm hung thick, rock-hard and excellent stamina (no Viagra needed here!). But never in a rush, always focused on your orgasms, and sensitive to your desires, your preferred pace and respecting your limits. I'm always a gentleman, and know what "no" means. Whether you enjoy traditional love-making, or want to explore new erotic sensations and push the limits, I love it all and I'm sure we'll have a great time together. Don't be worried if you are a bit shy or embarrassed... I never judge, and am happy to take things as fast or as slow as you are comfortable with. I'm a dedicated single parent, raised two agers since they were very young, so not as "spontaneous" as I might otherwise be, but now that they are getting older and finding their own interests, I am all of a sudden finding "me" time, and would love to spend it with a fun, sensual lady. Even though I'm generally a "take charge kind of guy", with a lady I'm very tender and responsive to your desires and limits. I'm not a "player", but also not in a situation right now that allows me to devote the time and energy to a "committed relationship". There has to be something in between the two, isn't there?

My Ideal Person I enjoy meeting ladies that are fun, great sense of humor, cute, and love to laugh. I also appreciate a lady who has the self confidence (and sensual nature) to wear sexy lingerie... thigh-highs, thongs, sheer bras, heels, etc. I find the "conservative on the outside, sensual tiger on the inside" look to be VERY appealing! But if you like to slip into a short skirt and go out, that's fine too! And if you love hours of pampering.... with hands, mouth and tongue, then we are a perfect match. I'm not looking for "Barbie" (been there, done that), so a few pounds or the effects of gravity don't turn me off at all!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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