I'm the Romantic type; I like to hold hands, kiss and caress, and show my affections to the woman I'm with. I understand what Adult FriendFinder is and what it’s about and shouldn’t be so afraid to open up because we’re all here for the same reas. Well, we are and we aren’t. I want to find friends, and develop friendships and at some point be comfortable enough with them to have that "Friends with Benefits" relationship. If you miss any of the above and want to find "that one special man to have on the side"; I’m looking for a long term discretionary relationship to fill in what I’m not getting at home-passion and romance. I love my wife, and have no interest in leaving her And likewise I'm not going to ask you to leave your significant other either.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for a woman who remembers what it was like to be passionate, who misses that passion and wants to rekindle it on the side of her current relationship; to be discreet; and I'll do the same for you. I'm straight, and looking for the same in a woman, but will join in for a 3sum or 4sum with the right couple. Life is too short and fragile to be spending it alone in the relationship, so finding that one special woman who remembers what it was like to be the "Best of Friends, the Best of Lovers, and the Best of Secrets" outside of her current relationship is what I'm looking for to help fill the needs that are going unmet at home.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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