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Makin a list...
Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
Last Updated:Mar 27, 2018 6:56 pm

And checkin it twice
Goin to try to keep everything nice
List of blogs, thoughts, pondering, wishing, and daily fun...

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On sex The kind of fg I need __ Sexy sounds he makes -- SomedaysConstant state of arousal -- Intimacy and the moment __ What kind of style __searching forThe other side to casual fwbs

Toys r'us Request to see my toys__New toys

My kinks: My master list for BDSM 2018
Alternative thinkin are you kink friendly update2016 __ Just a view into my kinks
Kinky search, for me and for you __The list __ My kinks bondage
Orgasm study__ Orgasm study__Kinky mind for me

My searches: not currently looking for anyone new.

Tongue Goes in First tonight__Squirty needs towels__Flirty Friday __Sinday morning and The list
another day done__Finding your MOJO
Sinday mornin __Seems I have __ confidence and attraction are they two different things
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A post for some retrospect I suppose -- Trying to sleep -- Lustful thoughtsmind wanders at work

Virtual Symposium
1st time for the 12th VS International Intrigue -- 13th Virtual world and blogs -- 14th vs First dates
15th VS Black and White __ 16th vs Casual relationships __17th The First Time __18th VS Its a Secret&vs18its a secret__19thVS Its science time__20thVS My life as a __VS23 Dreams

Sexy saturdaypenis thoughts__ Adventures in dating land for tues__Mornin ladywood
Carpet service required__Sinday mornin well lunch time__Sex chat __Thirsty Thursday free time
world of words __ Logical right__Friday __ What kind of style
Strokin wat __Where o'where are you hiding

Just for daily FUN
Finally Friday__ Just another day in paradise __ Saturday free time
another chilly winter night j14n16 __ Sexy saturday night j3n16
Thirsty Thursday..
Posted:Oct 18, 2018 3:21 pm
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2018 5:36 pm
And my throat is dry cough cough
My humor is still there though, but it has beem more on the sarcastic dry "you to know me to understand what I just said" type of moments. Lol

Lets see, my cell is soo dry for sexy contacts....

Ya, that dry.

It's been really quiet on the dating sites, , but maybe its the beautiful weather we've been having hence why people are not looking for winter comfort.
I dunno.... maybe. Lol

I have discovered a new blogger whose linked to a kink blog site, so I will be reading through that this week to see if its worth joining. Still won't help in finding partners but at least can chat about kink and sex related stuffs.
But I will check for trolls and flamers before joining, nothing is more tiresome than having to deal with those.

Sexy new dates,
I was asked ablut the last time I had a good date...geesh, maybe 4.5 ago. And he was complaining about his 3 dates in 2 weeks. And the other 38 yr recently single dude I know has 3 or 4 dates a week, I think he's dating someone now because I haven't heard from him in a few weeks.. Lol

Maybe the 60million jackpot will fix my dating situation, well at least make those male 'bf experience' more accessible to me.
Speaking of that, I had answered a ques about whether women would pay for sex/play in a kink discussion group, that Yes I would pay for a kink play partner and I would pay for sex if it guaranteed my pleasure is first n foremost. (Which his reputation would rely on a good job yanno).... anyway, the men thst messaged me afterwards wow, irrate, mean, spiteful... all because I wanted my pleasure, but they seem to be under the impression that All Cock should be great cock and women should be grateful. But I've never ever before been called a psychopath just because I would pay for a better experience. Lol
But thats a whole other blog now.

Lets see....
Its been awhile for any new sexy fun friends.
But the new blog site looks entertaining. Lol
And No that isnt a request for sex chat with anonymous men, but thanks for the offer.

Sexy bloggers,
Thirsty Thursday, how are you spending your day?
Duck duck goose...
Posted:Oct 17, 2018 10:33 am
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2018 4:41 pm
More like dick dick ginormous...

So, yep, a chat on penises and the VAST selection that is available.

I do understand that many men only have a cock to offer and want her decision to meet based off of his cock and all its splendor. Even if its a disembodied one floating in a pic or hovering over a toilet, dammit ladies you still need to make your choice on that only!

Don't get me wrong, I have a cock fetish and I do enjoy those pics sent to me by established partners (all ex now, currently soo single my cell is on dry humor diet). I stayed on this site even with its high rate of close up peen pics. So ya they don't really bother me that much,, , but it does wear on me when they message on dating sites and only have thier cock on offer, in case you missed it I already have a suitcase full of dicks.

Anyhoo, making your choice to chat and meet based off of meat or meatus.
Can't say that I have met with a guy based solely on how beautiful his dick is, but I have certainly turned men down based on the photo and its contents.
Like the action pics with no condoms, and he's single and only looking for nsa. Action pics with no condoms. Bushy bushy bushes. Over toilet pics. Cock with dirty socks pic. Looks like a microwaved weiner pic. And so on....

But then I do suppose it is tough to take a super sexy pic of your bits.
My pics turn off plenty, I have received many complaints over the juice running out in my vids and cams, so yes it doesnt appeal to everyone...but the majority of my voyeur audience wants to see an exhibitionist.

I guess the close up dick pick advertisement has a large enough audience to receive positive feedback.
I have since learned to not meet with those men, yes I have tried it more than once. And yes I'm sure many men don't even look at my profile because of my content (plus I don't meet anymore, its just an outlet for my exhibitionism).

But yanno, when it comes to picking from cocks you can find most any size you want with a few clicks of the mouse.
My last partner was a comfy thick 6.5, the partner before that was a above average girth 7", the one lover before that was a thick 8.5"...
Yah selection!

But please don't get mad at me just because I dont find your cock photogenic and I dont want to meet it or its owner, k'thanks.
Yes I have a cock fetish but I have learned to reserve that for established partners.

And then, where was I going with this ...
Its hump day, and I just had a chuckle at the penis lineup in the IM page thats all....
Monday again..
Posted:Oct 15, 2018 3:52 pm
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2018 8:17 pm
Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
I hate rhyming...

Just sayin,
But also kinda sorta horny today,
But should probably go for a hike to burn off the energy.

Maybe, and then, its a beautiful day here in the badlands.

Searching, searching, and still searching...
.... maybe I will find those missing easter eggs instead.

How was your day?

Im craving some great conversation, a few good laughs, but overall just a great date that leads to some awesome sex. But not asking for much am I.
Sinday and history.
Posted:Oct 14, 2018 10:15 am
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2018 7:15 am
So ya during my sex therapy sessions we were chatting about the where my obsession may have come from.. as there was no 'sexual abuse' as the typical go-to for sex addiction.

Anyway, looking way back I remembered the books my parents had hiding in the closet. (If you think you are hiding things from the spawn...don't kid yourself). Aside from dads porno mags there was the Joy of Sex and it was all about loving and pleasure, not the gossipy spiteful stuff in the grocery store gossip section of the magazine rack and what my one grandma loved to read.

It was about full body pleasure, erotica, communication... it wasn't about what the mega rich people drama of the week.

It fascinated me and fuelled my fantasies as limited as they where back then.
Like I said, I collect books and I finally found those two in good condition at my favorite used book store.

I think it surprised my therapist that I have always had a genuine interest in sex and that it came naturally and not by evil. At any rate its been a lifelong passion of mine. I do enjoy many aspects of sex and sexual interaction, but I have definitely learned to only express myself to trusted people because men can be cruel if there's no real bond.

So sexy bloggers,
I would type more about my obsession and passions but it really sucks trying to type in the 1 tonne truck on a bumpy hwy. Lol

Enjoy the day, it is beautiful weather here!
After work relaxing
Posted:Oct 13, 2018 7:04 pm
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2018 4:07 pm
It was a nice day in the forest and because I enjoy the outdoors soo much ...
I came home horny.

Rubbed out 4 while relaxing, didn't even bother to take my socks off. Lol
But actually I had a nice hot shower just a few minutes before this but thought I would just fix that ladywood before some yard work.

And yeeesss, nice n relaxed,
lucky because I took a walk to the far pasture and seen the beavers have been far too busy so ya fixing that tomorrow...... but for now I'm pretty chilled.

Would be nice to get a massage though

Enjoy the Saturday evening on your hot date or sex date or whatever fun you are up to, I'm off to bed early as it was a whole lot of labour today getting that fence in.
Easily amused somedays....
Posted:Oct 12, 2018 8:51 am
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2018 3:38 pm
Ya, I will admit that after a long day I can be easily amused by simple stuffs in life.
Including laughing at the thumbnail pic of this shot!

Ok ya it looks like one of those bad penis pics where the peen is floating in the shot to make it look bigger than it is.

I work in construction and you a sense of humor to survive the week.
Somedays all you can do is blink and look at your operator like wtf dood.
Other days you have to be quick on your feet to keep on top of the dog pile so you don't become a target. Lol.

I in of some really good conversation and a great date. Because no matter how light you make your day, some days it really does get a bit gloomy and lonely. Standing in a room full of people yet alone in your thoughts.

Hot sex thoughts tend to sneak around in the background, reminding the ladybits that they some attention. Craving penetration and warm hands, that longing to feel desired....

Gotta go,
The truck driver finally showed to move the machine.

Now craving sex... ladyboner will be pesky today.
I thought it was hump day ...
Posted:Oct 11, 2018 8:31 pm
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2018 11:15 am
But apparently it is Thursday, lol
Close enough though!

Even better -> its my friday.

One thing that helps the day go by is joking around and quick wit.
Somedays we can get completely off the rails with the jokes and laughter, and it's all in good fun.

Of course the quick wit and even better come backs are the best way to get a few laughs. Then saying it with a straight face will always get them, then they can't tell if its sarcasm or Haha.
Sexual innuendo is always there, of course.

Sexy bloggers,
My days off I get to make firewood and finish a contract fence job instead of relaxing and cleaning house plus yard work and then hopefully drive to the neighboring city 3 hrs away for dinner on Saturday with friends.
But ya somewhere in there I want to chill n read a book while the sun is in my front room.

How's is your weekend looking? Anything exciting?
Or a hot date?
Something way more fun than my wknd?
Add a post for Tuesday
Posted:Oct 9, 2018 8:50 pm
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2018 8:20 pm
So I have been receiving a few messages and IMs regarding:
"too bad you aren't meeting" or along those lines.

Then its a monologue to me about why its not fair that I lump 'all men' into the same category yada yada yada. Well actually I am not lumping them/you/men all together, I just keep it basic and stay with my lessons learned from this site.
I am sure there are many wonderful passionate, fun, sexy, open men on this site BUT I rarely ran into them.... so I would rather search on vanilla paid dating sites for now.

But its not 'too bad' that I'm not meeting because my experience tells me that I would do better to not meet with the nsa guys right now and in the near/medium far future. Lol.
I miss sex greatly but I really can't handle yet another bad date, so I will keep searching the hollow and shallow pools of vanilla sites.

Lets see,
I can really only wish to find hot kinky sex with even most of my dates, I really want to give the benefit of the doubt but the experience has proven otherwise... and I want to hold onto the last of my beliefs that sex is awesome, pleasure is addictive, sensuality is mind bending....

So as much as many may think they have the majic penis to change my mind and prove a point,
I will pass but for a few of you the thought will definitely cross my mind that the sex just may be fun n hot.

And then,
Annnddd thennn,
Its a really short week for me as I have a whole stack of fridays off.

Thoughts of meeting new men are ever present on my mind but I rarely come across men that can capture my interest... is it because the older you get the less effort you put into initial conversations?

Sexy bloggers,
The older you get does that equal the less effort you put into others and quicker to move on to the next one?
Do you search with the same enthusiasm for sex and dating or do you change up your searches pending what its for whether sex or dating?
Sinday coffee and pondering books
Posted:Oct 7, 2018 9:42 am
Last Updated:Oct 12, 2018 12:58 pm
Or more specifically romance or erotica written for the female pov. 😏☕
Oh lord, where's she going with this...

Cretin brought up the thought that I may possibly search for hot lusty erotica when I use book shopping as a distration.
I have books about sex, sensuality, kink, and that sort, plus King and Patterson, and other archaeological type of novels.
I did inherit a bunch of paperback novels written mainly by penthouse around bdsm but I never really looked at them. (Inherited from a friend who was diagnosed with lung cancer, so I just keep them in my collection).

But looking through my books this mornin I didn't see any harlequin type of romance. Lol.
To be fair I did try and read those types of romance books because my grandmother read them all the time and would give me her books when she was done with them. I would read them and usually chuckle away at the impossible sex scenes and how they always seemed hot, lusty, passion filled.
I know from experience that sex is rarely like that, but I'm sure I can write the encounter to sound waaayy hotter than it actually was.

But I believe that women would be better off if they didn't believe in the romance, passion, hot sex that is portrayed in those books because real life is a few awkward pumps of the penis in vagina and he's off to the next meetup.
The same could be said about men wanting life to be like porn, where they women are always hot n ready and will fuck without any real connection (plus all the fakeness that would come with it).

50 shades of grey may as well been written for men because seriously a 21 yr old virgin taken by a handsome hung millionaire and she thinks he's the bestest stud evva!
So I do suppose housewife erotica has it's place in the world as it may lend to dreams and hope of a hot sex life.

But when I book shop its mainly for my other interests because the book stores rarely carry sex based content (for that I search online but I won't order thru amazon bec I'm old school and like to search book stores). Lol. Plus a book purist and I prefer paper over digital. I like my collection of garden books, farming, homesteading, archaeology, geology, canning, exploring hikes, massage, older or original versions of books....

Sinday in the badlands,
I have to try and till the garden under today, hopefully it's not too wet as my poor old tiller will have a helluva a time with the clover as it is.
Day off, now what 🤔
Posted:Oct 5, 2018 10:08 am
Last Updated:Oct 18, 2018 8:15 pm
Since hiring the second person I no longer have to fill my weekends with work, and I also have a bunch of holiday time that is now booked off.

So searching for a class or workshop thay offers something of interest to me.
Like sensual massage, reiki, something about sex, or kink....

Not many are offered in my area but I will see about the neighboring cities.
I am thinking about learning to run the table saw, but I am not a huge fan of those kind of power tools. Lol.
If anyone has a handle on some 25ft I beams or can mechanic a truck that would be awesome!
How about pruning fruit trees?

Back to sexy stuff and not chores,
I am debating on whether to start hosting some information nights on different less vanilla things like squirting and prostate massage, strapon, ect, as I already co-host the bondage nights. But still searching for a hotel that isn't crazy expensive that has a workshop space available ...but on public areas the live models can't be used. Lol

Sexy bloggers,
I have asked this question a few times over already, but...
Have you done any classes or reading up on sex or intimacy based interests?

I am guessing that its more women that have an interest in learning in a safe environment and reading up on things, but I rarely come across men that have an interest in sexploring or exploring unless it was fmf/ffm.
Searches and the onesided fwb
Posted:Oct 4, 2018 11:02 am
Last Updated:Oct 19, 2018 5:35 pm
So still pondering over my past searches and the last time I mentioned it the point was brought up about men not available when I'm actually horny.

My search for years was for someone that would be available when I am super horny especially just before my cycle starts. Which means 4-6 days before day 1 I'm insatiablely craving penetration and male cock, but having to settle on my toys instead of risking a hookup. .. 'risking' because nothing is worse than being really really horny and he is a 2 min man or he can't even get up due to me not being hot enough.
So searched for the unicorn man that enjoys sex and is available when I also message versus me only being available when he messages once every few months. Lol
As strange as kamloops is, I couldnt find a younger man that would be up for it.

Which in turn I started buying toys instead of bothering looking for a date. Then I got into cam shows because I could play for hours and cum multiple times.

Eventually I had to have a dollar limit on how much I could spend each month.

I have since gone through my toys and only kept a few, I limit my shopping to every few months for a new toy. If I'm horny and desiring company I just go shopping instead...usually for books... Lol

But ya, women get really horny and desire men... who would have thought.
Most 'fwb' means I should be available for when he wants company but I dont dare pester for more sex, because he will get all scared thinkin his dic is majic and you want a fulltime relationship with him (hence why its advisable to have 2 or 3 casual partners so you do not develop emotions out of convenience).

I ordered 2 new deertan floggers and looking for a new vibe.

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