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Unless my partner is near death and it's an emotional connection... Oh.. or let's say.. I've got minutes to live and BOOM Or unless she's a life partner... and we're having an off night.. Sure. Yep I get that. makes sense to me. Otherwise.... sure.. once in a Blue Moon... Yep.. I'm all into emotional connections.. on a 'one off'. Otherwise n fuck that. ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Actually when I was doing research for my previous blog on Dispelling Sex Myths, I included the following about being able to enjoy sex without having an orgasm: “The idea that sex must lead to orgasm can be a very damaging thought for people of all genders and sexualities as it puts undue pressure on them and can cause anxiety—the two enemies of sexual pleasure,” says Melissa Coats, a licensed professional counsellor specializing in sex therapy. “Sex is meant to be pleasurable but there are many ways to find pleasure in sexual contact without orgasm.” Taking the pressure off yourself to always climax can lead to a more relaxed and positive experience.
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i voted other as i cant say..i always cum.. woop woop
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3/10/2019 6:27 pm |
Yes agree, sometimes a long session without climax can be amazing.
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She is probably right from a woman's point of view, but not a mans point of view.
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Sex is, well, sex; you know, getting naked and doing what feels good. Climax is great, but is it always necessary? Nah. To put that into perspective, I want my partner to go as far as she can–with my help. I'll do anything for that. If I don't come in the process, I really don't care. I enjoy the journey. Maybe it's me, but I try to pay attention to a partner, which requires a certain amount of intelligence with instinct. Often this combo is enough to to cool my jets while firing up hers! I love that she is fired up. We can balance things out in other ways.
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From my experience, sometimes just making a woman have many orgasms from a variety of stimulation and leaving her drained and satisfied is rewarding enough, even if I do not cum.
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From my experience, sometimes just making a woman have many orgasms from a variety of stimulation and leaving her drained and satisfied is rewarding enough, even if I do not cum.
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Good, yes... Great, no... Pleasing women in unbelievable ways for 45 years... You could be next...
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Definitely yes ! Physical intimacy has many different faces and can be oh so wonderful in all aspects. It's about the journey, not necessarily the destination~~
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But it is interesting......I would love to see the results extracted by gender. Cuz it definitely is a Mars/ Venus way of thinking....for many things ~~
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Yes I've never orgasmed during sex, but that doesn't put me off as there's still so much to enjoy - watching her climax, exploring her, laying there together, running your fingers through her hair, slowly caressing her...
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3/11/2019 9:43 am |
i agree a was with u
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As someone who has had issues not being able to orgasm due to medications (what an absolute deal-breaking side effect!) I know for a fact that while feeling great during but not being able to make it over the finish line is incredibly frustrating.. not to mention disappointing not only to yourself but to your partner as well! Regardless if its something medical/physical/mental... the ability to not orgasm during/as a result of sex just isn't the same imo
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Ic you mean cuddling, massage without orgasm , sure I agree. Sex and orgasms beneficial to my health, why else bother?
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Considering I always get off when masturbating because that's the purpose and I go over half hour to do it that is less preferable to even ten minutes with a woman where I don't orgasm. 15-20 minutes seems to be the ceiling for many women for sex playtime which is not long enough for me unless they and I are willing to go uncovered bj. Given concerns about STDs that doesn't happen often. About 25% of my encounters I orgasm. I don't understand the mindset of people that think a 2 minute bad ending to a game you played for 60 hours ruins the whole experience. Same with not getting off the fun you had playing didn't just evaporate like it never existed.
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In my point of wiew orgasm is needed.... 
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it is really not necessary and even do not happen all the time that orgasm is achieved on each and every sex sometimes one gets orgasm sometimes other , sometimes both and also sometimes both of them do not feel orgasm but still it gives satisfaction. it all depends on the state of mind and the flow it goes with...
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Orgasms are great. You feel so good afterwards but they are not always possible. I some times have to ask a woman if they are sore, tired or if they have had enough. No guy likes to hear would you hurry up or are you going to get off soon. Squeeze my balls. Help it happen.
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Had a massage last week at a parlour. Inclusive was a blow job. Being so relaxed and then penis performance, was hard to get into mood but as she progressed I got the hard up and was taking longer than normal to get there. She started putting finger pressure on my anus and thumb pressure between scrotum and anus as well. God bless her she was trying. I got a great sensation from it but no explosive cum. Called it quits and appreciated the ladies effort. My god it did feel great though. Raised my arse off the table.
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