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Well said my friend and I think you hit the nail on the head, but in saying that I have to say there are much more here looking for the L word even though they won't admit it.. I hope you have a wonderful afternoon
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Nobody should judge others as why they are here... if someone is looking for love, and your not... you aren't a match, leave them alone. If two like minded people connect, then they should ENJOY each other
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I think love can be found on this site, but you have to be extremely lucky. A number of female profiles I see (I don't go reading the guy profiles) appear to be looking for a "soul mate" - is that the same thing as love?
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Hey!!! "J"ackpot starts with a J!!
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I'm here to LOL!!!
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it's nobody's business why someone is here and what they seek. You said it right there, no matter what reason people are here for. And, if a person is here to meet then it is only between those 2. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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people love to tell others how to think and what to do, but don't like it when someone tell them the same thing, if you find love on here good for you, if you just want sex with strangers good for you, because people do the same thing on match.com and the other tame web sites, they are just more tame about it, on here you tell someone what you really want and show nudes pics. that is the only differences.
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True.. that everyone has their own reasons for being, anywhere... I usually ignore the question... In any case, I've mentioned that I'm only here for the buffet table... People have different profiles on different sites? Hmmm... 🤔 That's an interesting idea... ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Crap on other people's words!It won't stop me from lusting for love It would seem nowadays with the overwhelming surplus of ex soulmates the "L" word wasted a lot of their time for lusting.It might have a lot to do with why as we age that puddle has gotten much shallower! Using more than all the road!
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I’m not sure if I’ll ever be “in love” again but at a minimum I want to feel a connection. Anonymous or “no strings attached “ are not my deal.
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Good morning. I hadn't read this post yet, so I'm a little late to the conversation, but I think this one is a gem. It opens a lot of discussion and gives me a lot to think about and comment on. First, let me say that I don't believe lust and love are mutually exclusive. In fact, I think "one hand may wash the other," as I've heard some folks say. Lust can certainly lead to love, and love without lust is kind of like wearing gray all the time. OK, that's kind of a vague analogy, but there are lots of different kinds of love - and not all of them are healthy. There's possessive love, whereby a person may wish to "own" somebody. Maybe that plays out here in a master-servant relationship. Putting a choke chain or collar around someone's neck seems kind of kinky to me, but I'm not here to judge. There's addictive love, whereby your lover becomes like your dope. The person you're fucking becomes a high, a controlled substance, a shot in the arm to elevate your mood. I've found that kind of love in a sexual relationship before, and it can work - for a while. Then there's romantic love, the thing that some people call "true love." I call it a "giving love" as opposed to a "taking love" or a selfish love. the romantic ideal is that you are so smitten with someone that you place their own well-being and happiness above your own. And in the perfect world, there's a feedback loop, a fair and balanced exchange of giving that equals out in the end. A giving love is a committed love though. That means one doesn't disappear or hit the road the minute things get kind of bumpy. I've known guys who can't even endure a woman's period, or gals who split the moment the money is gone. My friend is one of those folks who is in love with the idea of being in love. He fancies himself as a Romeo, but he's really more of a narcissist. He plays the game, with sweet little nicknames, lots of texts and all kinds of promises, but he can't seem to keep a girlfriend for more than a few months. I've remained friends with three of his exes. He attracts quality women. They all had good jobs and were independent. They didn't expect him to pay for everything and they didn't ask to move in. Not right away. Two of them had teenage children, which complicated things a bit. But it meant they were grounded. They knew how to put someone else first. That's sometimes a quality that's very hard to find. Finally, they were all very sensual, sexual creatures. They new how to dress, how to turn on the female charms, how to elicit desire. But my "one-minute Romeo" can't seem to stay focused. He has dating ADD (attention deficit disorder). He also bullshits himself into thinking that he really wants that grounded, well-rooted lifestyle with a dependable partner that can be counted on through thick and thin. But the minute any friction or tension emerges, he jumps ship. I think he got that from his parents' failed marriage, growing up in a split household with a constantly bickering mother and father. Me, I like the anchor of having one partner at a time. I don't like juggling, or trying to maintain multiple lovers. Instead of one deep pond, it's like splashing from one shallow puddle to the next - but that's just my opinion. I think it's fun to fuck around because I like variety and keeping things fresh, but when I finally find that one gal who scratches my itch, I like to hang on. For a while anyway. Call that love if you will, but it's closer to my ideal than continually adding another notch to my belt and mowing through a platoon or battalion of one night stands. In the end, I guess what I'm saying is that every person has their ideal. We don't all have a well-defined notion of what that perfect situation may be, but don't be surprised if you get tangled up in your idea of love while floating around here on Stripper Girls Gone Crazy trying to keep it light and loose. It can happen!
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"Feel a connection! Yes, Smart Ass Woman! Yes! Ding, ding, ding! Call that love. Call it commitment. Call it a meaningful connection that you can return to. A well that brings you back because it quenches your thirst. A connection that comes with strings is what some of us want. Call it an anchor, or even a ball and chain. But it keeps us from drifting and allows some of us to drop some roots and find ourselves where we are! I'm with you, I think I just expressed it differently. I can get very wordy and take a long time getting to the point, but yes. A connection. Being plugged in. I guess my desires aren't wireless!
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I'm responding to Temptress here (Tmptrzz): Yes, there are many more here on Stripper Girls Gone Crazy looking for the "L" word - even though they won't admit it. Hell, I don't even think most of us even know what we're looking for here. We have a vague idea, a foggy sort of notion, but it goes deeper than getting one's cock or pussy sucked for an evening. Much deeper than that, right?
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