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Does It Make You Horny? Questions for All Genders  

tresennui 69F  
2842 posts
7/5/2018 8:42 am

Last Read:
3/30/2019 9:39 pm

Does It Make You Horny? Questions for All Genders

As someone who uses an ipad I generally sign into the A F F mobile site. The home screen displays pics and videos, larger and more prominent than using the desktop version (which is unfortunately the only way to access blogs). Realizing that I barely pay attention to the dick pics and thinking that people who do not frequent sites like this on a regular basis would most likely be shocked, disgusted, curious, or very turned on, made me revisit a blog I posted years ago and thought it would make a good poll. So here goes...

Has looking at the barrage of pictures online of naked peeps, genitals, boobs,
and the such, desensitized you?

Did you used to get turned on by most of them, and now only a select few?

What about videos/porn?
Admittedly, some are intriguing, but after routinely watching, do you still find them erotically arousing?

Comments as well as poll response will be appreciated.

Pretty much ignore the graphically explicit pics.
Turned on even if I have seen them multiple times.
Need somethings specific in pics and videos to get me horny (please explain).


Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
3/30/2019 3:43 pm

I admit I do love to see pics of naked women and enjoy seeing all the glorious variations on the theme of women's naughty bits but just them alone don't turn me on. I need something personal. I have discovered long ago from going to a nude beach where I could see 50 to a 100 naked women at a time that as nice as it is to see her pussy and tits it was who she was and her signs that she was attracted to me too that was a turn on.
I don't have sex with body parts but rather the body parts are a vehicle to have sex with a particular woman.
Yes, I am somewhat desensitized to pics of sexual parts but that occurred at a nude beach. Here it is reinforced.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


tresennui replies on 3/30/2019 5:03 pm:
After seeing so much genitalia here it doesn’t do anything at all.for me. If anything, very often a dick pic just makes me think, “does he think that looks good?”. Other nudity (which can include genitalia) can still get me curious. 😋

Whatsitgoing2B06 63M

7/29/2018 12:19 am

Enjoy seeing pics anytime.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

7/23/2018 11:42 pm

From my perspective, a full body picture, clothed or less so is what I find most appealing. To be honest, the ultra close up pictures of body parts makes me seem to find flaws in them (especially the double chins in so many pictures of a woman's cleavage) and makes me think that they have something to hide.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


tresennui replies on 7/24/2018 6:09 pm:
Cleavage with double chins?

cyclingfool 62M  
6666 posts
7/17/2018 6:48 pm

I need to see them attractive in an everyday setting to be attracted.
Girl next door pretty, look normal yet pretty in clothing or lingerie.
Does that make sense?


Whatsitgoing2B06 63M

7/17/2018 5:03 am

Depends on the mood. In general, I look for something specific.


subson4dadd 38M

7/10/2018 11:08 pm

i have a long list of specific things i look for


Whatsitgoing2B06 63M

7/9/2018 5:40 pm

All depends on my mood and what I am looking for.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/9/2018 2:12 pm

Not in the least because anticipation of the real deal is much more appealing
Desensitizing is listening to those that think they have a good case to oppose anyone that that thinks it doesn't

Using more than all the road!


bs2016cj 46M

7/9/2018 11:52 am

really depends on my mood as well as the content of the picture. videos deff do more for me though


AndyNotts2000 38M

7/9/2018 10:51 am

Agree completely - don't want to see the stuff that i should be excited to see later. Give me something to chase


heelmenow 75M
89 posts
7/9/2018 10:22 am

Not really into the graphic pictures. However, judt looking at your eyes in your picture got muy blood moving,

Thank you.


oralyyours702 64M
128 posts
7/8/2018 2:31 pm

could not agree more, the real experience leaves you with a memory, not a fictional scenario


talentedcurve 50M

7/7/2018 6:01 pm

Each person is different they I look at. Some people have different parts about them they a man enjoys. I'm no different. What turns me on about one woman won't get me hard about the next


Superman4695 39M
168 posts
7/7/2018 3:29 pm

I only get turned on if the image is what I am sexually attracted to a fit and at least somewhat attractive younger (18-34) woman for my tastes.


flowerkings2012 60M
4312 posts
7/6/2018 11:11 am

I guess it all depends on one's success rate in real life, but I, like many, will never complain about getting a glimpse of the female form, in various stages of undress

I don't watch porn now or access vids on here, as I have lapsed gold, and with the way the site is run, won't pay to renew it unless massive improvements made, though there probably are some vids from womnen on here I would enjoy.

I will use points for female cammers, but it really depends on who it is, as, with the pics, it erally depends what is on offer as certain things work best to stumulate me visually, for cam or still pic.

Perhaps those who have a glut of offers and action take it for granted, but i do do enjoy the ones that really grab me, rather than the basest of wank fodder vids and pics. Same would apply to iM msg and chats; some would ge genuinely arousing and erotic and sensual- and be appreciated al lthe more for it


pytimesx 64M
988 posts
7/5/2018 9:08 pm

Porn was never a turn on and most of it is more of a turn off than interesting since both "unique" and "good technique" are rare. But both can be worth sharing with a partner and hearing each others opinions and observations.

That said, what I do find interesting is a mature woman with a great body (by which should never be measured against a twenty or thirty something reference). Yes, in reality, most are all too wrong by suggesting youth is better. Mostly because youth rarely has the intellectual capacity to trip my trigger. And, for that, just a pic doesn't tell all !

ps: Finally, a decent question!


albl8888 53M

7/5/2018 8:44 pm

Love to watch photos and videos of ladyboys /ts girls


JohnTalks73 27M
1 post
7/5/2018 7:58 pm

I have to be in the right mood to have it turn me on, that or I flip and get turned on physically but mentally I'm just not there.


NudeDon69 54M  
1442 posts
7/5/2018 4:44 pm

Being a nudist, and having seen many naked bodies, I do not get turned on immediately, however, I never get tired of seeing any naked woman; I almost always take a glance and enjoy. But for getting horny, I usually have to be in the mood, unless something catches my eye, or I see an especially pretty pussy shot; then BOING!!! That can get a little messy if I have a plate of food on my lap.

As for the dick pics, I just ignore those; I have one of my own I can see whenever I want.

Smart as a rock, strong as a marshmallow, and hung like a flea. Now, don't that make me sexy?
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seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
7/5/2018 11:02 am

I agree with positively4u, genital pics don't do it for me,, I think some things are best left for personal eyes only.
As for porn... meh! .. I think too much of it does desensitize you, I watch it sometimes.. but not often.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
7/5/2018 9:58 am

I am desensitized. A nice looking man, not a dick pic, will turn my head or a nice message will get my attention. The im or message with just a dick pic, I don’t even bother. If he asks if I want to see before just sending, tells me more about him. I know men think differently than women. We are not wired the same. Don’t get me started on anus pics. Well, ok, ewwwwwww.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/5/2018 9:36 am

Not quite desensitized but close. If it is a woman who is local and there is a possibility of meeting then yes I'll look. Mostly because I'm here to meet.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
7/5/2018 9:09 am

As I said barely look; however, occasionally something will catch my eye and make me click on it. Sometimes only because I cannot figure out what the pic actually is until I see it full size, or a video looks like it may be something unique. I check things out more for curiousity than for sexual interest these days.

I've given my opinion...now it's your turn. Hoping both men and women let me know how the frequent exposure to pornography effects them.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


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